It’s been three years since I’ve graduated college and about a year of living on my own in the big apple. Through these post college years I’ve gone through a lot-- new job, new friends, new relationships, and a new living situation. I’ve learned that things either workout for a reason or they don’t because that’s not what life intended. I’ve learned that people will 100% let you down and you will feel like crap but then other people will surprise you completely and maybe eve

To those of you who actually know me IRL you probably have had the pleasure of meeting my mother, Patty aka Prez Pat. Also, who am I kidding anyone who read this blog is friends/family (hey y'all). Anyways, one of the best things about my mom is that we are best friends even though she lives 3,000 miles away. What's even better is that she is actually pretty avid on social media and keeping up with me and my 3 brothers via social media. When she read my most recent post, 25 t

Let’s just take a moment to absorb in the above title. If you know me in *real life* or have taken a gander to the right of this post then you know that I am Asian and more specifically Chinese. If you haven’t picked up on that then, maybe you should get your eyes checked--and your head too while you’re at it. See Image A below. I have two Chinese parents, three Chinese brothers and a pair of Asian eyes. I ate rice with chopsticks almost every night growing up and participate